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Retrain My Brain With YouTube - A Six Part Series - Day Six



I've set a goal. It's not a big goal or particularly difficult, but I have a habit of quitting what I try to start so I thought if I wrote it all down I would push through.

If you haven't read the previous parts of this series follow these links: Day one! Day two! Day Three! Day Four! Day Fix!

I listen to a lot of positivity and self-motivational videos, talks and podcasts, but this video hit hard to home. I like to believe everyone is on a journey and I'm at this point in mine where I believe, like truly believe, I deserve happiness and success. I deserve to work hard at something and actually complete it. I deserve to not abandon a project once it starts going well because I'm afraid of success or don't feel I'm worthy of success.




So I made a commitment sitting on the floor of my office meditation/prayer room: I would listen to this video every day for 6 more days. I wanted to see if it would penetrate my consciousness and if the messages would ingrain themselves in my mind. I'll post my updates and may even do a vlog about my experience and how this impacts my soul journey.

Day Six - Thursday:


I almost didn't listen today. I went to bed really late last night and the night before it's all hit me at once. When my two coffees of the day wore off I was irritable, distracted and just really unproductive at work. When I got home I felt a bit better, but I'm the worst version of myself when I'm tired.

Sitting in bed reading a comic I went through my Trello list of items for a Thursday...it wasn't look too crash hot. I had done a lot of work on my other side huddle, Angry Roads, but not much else. So, sitting in bed I had a choice. I  could decide to just write today off and do a better job tomorrow, or I could do the things on the list that I could. I could listen to the video, journal about it for you good people and I could follow through on my evening skin routine.

Well I'm here so you know what I chose. All up this will take 15 minutes of my day. This video and taking care of my skin, among other things are goals I set for myself and I almost wasn't bothered to give it the 15 minutes it required. How often do you not give yourself the time to develop a new habit of work towards your goal?

As I resettled into bed I decided on my phrase for 2019 (it's never too late to celebrate a new you): show up. I'm going to keep showing up for myself. I'm going to keep writing this blog, I'm going to keep going to the gym, I'm going to keep focusing on positive thoughts, I'm going to continue to not use my phone when I'm with other people especially my husband. I'm going to make the effort and strive for the life that I've always thought would just fall into my lap. When I'm older, when I'm more financially stable, when I learn to drive, when I get married, when I buy property, when, when, when. Tomorrow never comes and I need to learn that I'm enough right now to strive for a better tomorrow. Who I am today is enough to #livemybestlife. So I'm going to keep going every single day, because like is mentioned in the video - gratitude is the most powerful connection you have to your higher-self. My higher-self exists and I'd really like to meet her.


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